Reply To: Ending an engagement

The only thing I’d add is to Peggy’s original point, figure out why you cheated, learn from it, recognize the signs of what was wrong so you don’t repeat in future relationships.

I can’t tell you how much therapy helped me, both with calling off the engagement and with personal growth.

I’m not proud of my affair, but I am glad it happened prior to marriage. I learned from my mistakes and I’ll never make that one again.