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peggy
February 27, 2023 at 9:36 am #1118792

Yes,based on what you have written ( and no”proof” presented that he has done anything wrong with these women or has a history of cheating in his relationships, you are very wrong. You sound controlling and unreasonable.
You appear to desire he not even say hello or be casually friendly to people he has known/knows. It is simply not realistic or practical to cut every old contact out of our lives. Have you done so yourself? I bet not.
You looking at his phone and your accusing ways,is bound to make him act secretive even about innocent or normal interactions.
I suggest you see a therapist to discover why you are so unreasonable and insecure. This behavior of yours will drive your boyfriend or other prospective partners away. I think you are creating your own misery.
“He mentioned the kind of car his ex drove,when we were talking about cars with his family” That alone makes you sound irrational and unbalanced. Get some help.