I don’t know. Your second paragraph reads like the letters we get from men where they think a woman is interested in him because she exists in the same space and is nice to him. In any case, next time you see him out at the bar, why don’t you say hello and flirt a little? I think that’s a more appropriate place to make a move than his grandson’s birthday party.
ETA: I just read your update. Posting something to Facebook that you hope he will notice/react to is not a good strategy or way to indicate interest.
- This reply was modified 6 months, 4 weeks ago by Copa.