Reply To: “It’s Been Three Years and I Still Haven’t Met His Kids”

Perhaps I misunderstood your letter and your boyfriend’s marriage was already over before he met you and he had already moved out, but reading between the lines, it doesn’t seem that that’s the case. Please correct me if I’m wrong. Though my advice was essentially be the same: let the kids have all the time they need to be ok with meeting you. Pushing this before they’re ready will backfire.