Reply To: How can I make a move?

I think you have to set better boundaries with your ex. He shouldn’t have this space in your head. He shouldn’t be able to engage with you at all about who you date.

My ex used to call me every day after we divorced. I told him to stop calling me every day. He was like, ok, how often should i call you? We figured out whatever. My point is, YOU call the shots, not him. And if you need to go elsewhere to meet men, DO IT. Your dating pool is larger than just guys you know in town.