Reply To: Ignoring and insults

Please call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. There are a lot of classic signs in your posts that you were subjected to abuse. Also, the feelings of emptiness and desperation without that person are part of trauma bonding, which is a part of the abuse cycle. It’s miserable to feel that way, but please understand it is NOT a sign to return to your abuser but in fact a really clear reason not to. Please do some research on this subject and the stages of trauma bonding. I also recommend reading Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft.