Reply To: “Is My Boyfriend of 11 Years Still With His Ex-Wife?”

Eleven years! Even if he weren’t married — and I, too, believe he is — that’s a really long time to be with someone where you want more commitment than you’re getting.

I’m not sure where you live, but marriage records are public in the US. How easy it is to get that information can vary a bit depending on where you live — sometimes you can easily look it up with a county court, other times I believe you’d have to pay a fee for the information. I can’t speak for others, but I’d certainly pay the fee in your situation.