Reply To: “Is My Relationship Worth The Stress It Causes me?”

This guy… He’s not what you think. It’s your first relationship and you don’t know, but he sucks.

You are absolutely correct that he was willing to throw everything away. He doesn’t see a future with you and you’re not in a monogamous relationship, but you’re giving him a no-strings “girlfriend experience” which he enjoys along with the opportunity to fuck whoever he wants, no questions asked. He’s got an ideal setup right now for a douchebag, and you’re letting him get away with it.

You need to break up with him. He will 1000% dump you at some point in the not too distant future after stringing you along and messing around with other women and likely not following your rules even. It’s going to be incredibly painful because probably what’s going to happen is he’s going to fall in love with someone else. Please dump him before that happens. You want a monogamous relationship with someone who’s excited about a future with you. This guy ain’t it.