Reply To: Anxiety when my boyfriend goes out

I doubt he cheats on you when he says he is out with his friends. That leaves an awful lot of time when he is alone and can cheat whenever he chooses. His history is against him, but not impossible he has changed. I don’t know if it’s just him as a partner, but it seems that you are not wired to survive a long-distance relationship. You talk of a long friend history together, but how long were you an in-person couple, before you went LDR. Did you have a mutual commitment to exclusivity while you were a couple or did that come with the imminent start of the LDR.

I’d MOA if I were you. This is tearing you apart in a way that you and your therapist haven’t been able to fix. Either you can trust your relationship or you can’t.