Reply To: Anxiety when my boyfriend goes out

The level of anxiety you experience when your boyfriend goes out is not normal, healthy, or sustainable. You cannot self-care your way into trusting someone and moving in together shouldn’t be viewed as a solution to your relationship problems. Not to mention that someone who wants to cheat on you can/will do so even if it’s not when he’s going out with his friends. I don’t believe “once a cheater, always a cheater,” but I know I’d have issues with a serial cheater, so I don’t blame you for not trusting this guy. I agree with the others that this relationship sounds like a bad fit.