Reply To: Who were the “victims” of my father’s patch back in the 1990s? Home / Forums / Advice & Chat / Who were the “victims” of my father’s patch back in the 1990s? / Reply To: Who were the “victims” of my father’s patch back in the 1990s? Kate March 13, 2023 at 2:45 pm #1119136 I’d say *you* were a victim. You’re unemployable because of your violent outbursts and refusal to follow norms and policies, and nothing’s ever your fault. You got that from your dad. Settings