Reply To: Becoming more than friends – am I being irrational?

You don’t even know what she smells like, right? Look it up. Pheromones are a huge part of attraction. Sexual chemistry can’t be figured out via interacting in a group game setting? Or even cybersex. It’s just not the same thing at all. Your brain is excited that’s she interested in you, but you need to be realistic.

When someone you don’t know well or have interacted much with tells you that you are their favorite person, it should give you pause like this has. When she says she wants you with her one on one forever and she’s never met you, that’s bizarre talk or just bs talk. Which is fine, but take it that way. Don’t fall in love with a girl you met on some game online. Have you FaceTimed?