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I’m so sorry, but he does not want to be married with you. That’s the truth if it. Why you big can’t speak honestly together is a mystery. Why you stay despite his hesitancy and your own bitterness towards him is another mystery. It seems like his has run its course, maybe two years ago?
Is your name on the house? Did you pay 50/50? What about the dog? I was in a similar situation except we only made it four years before I figured out we were not meant to be. Splitting the house, dogs and cats were difficult but it didn’t kill me. I’ve done many, many harder things. And then after that, I met the BEST guy. We got married and have been together 13 years.
Leave him. He’s never going to propose. If he does as you’re leaving, it’s a Hail Mary pass and should be ignored.
You shouldn’t ever spend years trying to convince someone to commit to you. I’m so sorry. Be free and get into your bad bitch era.