Reply To: “It’s Been Almost Ten Years and He Still Hasn’t Proposed”

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LisforLeslie
March 15, 2023 at 9:45 am #1119176

Look up Sunk Cost Fallacy.

You’ve been together 10 years. You don’t trust him or have any faith that he’s looking out for your interests. Staying with him only tells him that this is acceptable to you. And if the only motivation for him is he does this one thing or you leave… is that good enough? How many times can you pull that before he realizes you’re not serious?

Be with someone who wants to make you happy. Right now it seems his only motivation is not making you mad. that’s not good enough.
L