Reply To: “He Hides His Friendship With Me From His Girlfriend”

I think this friendship is seeming unbalanced. Calling someone when you’re on the road and talking for 6-7 hours seems… I don’t know, like not reasonable boundaries at the very least. And then he’s asking you to do things you’re not comfortable with, which further pushes your boundaries and feels like taking advantage. I get he’s famous, and not all relationships need to be 100% equitable all the time, but this has definitely veered into uncomfortable territory for you.

And this isn’t about his girlfriend, it’s about you and what you’re comfortable with. I don’t think you need to cut off the friendship, but really think about what you’re getting out of it, and I think it’s fine to say, nope, I’m not comfortable with that, I won’t be doing that.

For the record, it’s actually not complicated why he’s doing this. It’s because it’s easier. For him. Period.