Reply To: “He Hides His Friendship With Me From His Girlfriend”

I think he’s using you to kill time while he’s on the road and bored. You’re probably the only person in his life willing to chat on the phone for 6-7 hours at a time. In what other ways is he showing you that you’re important to him? How does he prioritize your friendship? How does she show care and respect for you? If your friendship boils down to super long phone calls when he’s bored and got no one else to talk to, I don’t think you’re the close friends you believe you are and you should probably set better boundaries if not move on entirely.