I actually noticed the glitch earlier on a different thread. I was not logged in and noticed @LisforLeslie’s username and email address had auto-filled into the reply box at the bottom of the screen.
I also have a lot of questions. How old are your girls? Would they have to go to the college you work at or would they be able to go to the school of their choosing? If the former, is that where they’d want to go to school?
Without knowing more, I’d say take the higher paying job if it means financial freedom. Having parents who can foot the bill is not the only way to avoid outrageous student loan debt.