Reply To: something about closure
Don’t reach out. I’ve been cheated on a couple of times (though as an adult, which I think makes a difference) and I think it’d mess with me if one of those men reached out to get closure for himself over his own chosen actions. If it had happened when I was still healing, it’d definitely have messed with me. Even now, years removed from having seen or spoken to these men, I’d not be interested in rehashing things for their benefit… it still hurts if I think about some of those moments too precisely.
You don’t say how much time has passed, but if it has been awhile and it’s still haunting you, you can speak to a therapist about this. I think it’s common to think someone else can give us peace and closure, but it doesn’t work that way. Closure comes from within.
