Yeah, we all DO NOT snoop. Some of us trust our partners. I have no reason to snoop. If I felt the need to snoop, I would have a conversation with my partner about my feelings.
In my opinion, the level of snoopery you’ve gone to is off the charts out of bounds in a relationship. If you think that’s normal, you need to recalibrate what you think is normal. It is not normal to check up on and control your partner.