Reply To: Advice re partners ex

Sorry to pile on, but I agree with the others that your behavior here is weird. You sound insecure, jealous, and controlling. Nothing you said indicates any reason to believe your boyfriend still has feelings for this ex from years ago who cheated on him (even if she happens to be pretty and fit, geez). Also, not everyone snoops. I’ve been with my husband 17 years and have never snooped. When you’re confident in yourself and your relationship, there’s not a temptation to snoop.