Reply To: How do I tell friend about the aro/ace spectrum?
She said in one of her other posts that she’s 14.
Don’t assume someone is ace or asexual just because at 13, 12, 11 they haven’t had sexual feelings, or at least haven’t TOLD you so. Not everyone is ever going to be completely honest with you. I would go so far as to say, assume some people want some degree of privacy about their sex life.
I do think you are overstepping if you take it upon yourself to tell her what you are assuming about her and then educating her. It’s none of your business. You need to MYOB more, just as you’d want your…say, parents, to mind their own business, right?
