Reply To: when someone says I should not reply

It’s possible that your ex genuinely wants to express remorse and apologize for his past behavior, and there’s nothing inherently wrong with that. However, it’s also important to consider the context of the situation and the patterns of behavior that may have existed in the past.

If your ex has a history of manipulating or controlling you, it’s possible that his apology may be an attempt to regain control or manipulate you in some way. It’s also worth noting that his statement about not wanting a response could be a way of trying to control the situation and avoid any potential confrontation or conflict.

Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide whether or not you want to engage with your ex and how you want to respond to his message. Just make sure to prioritize your own well-being and set clear boundaries if necessary. If you do decide to respond, consider taking it slow and being cautious, especially if you have concerns about his past behavior.