Reply To: Can’t forget my ex – even though I know we need to be apart

I mean… he says he’s doing everything he can to be better now, but he’s literally in a relationship and continuing to reach out to you!!? This guy is full of crap. It sounds like he’s doing absolutely nothing to be a better person. He doesn’t treat either of you with respect!

As for why she got back together with him, that’s surely a reflection of her own inner world (e.g., some self worth issues) and not him being a wonderful boyfriend. In fact he seems to be openly a pretty lousy boyfriend.

Also? To keep the peace in his relationship, he’s probably spinning what’s really happening and who is really reaching out.