Reply To: He wants to buy a house with his mother

Yes, this is when you need to go out for a drink with him or take a walk and have a nice conversation about where you both see this going and what you want. Do NOT just say nothing and see where this goes. You have to communicate.

My guess is he wants a house but needs 2 incomes to make that happen. It could be he really does want to live with mom and have you move in eventually too. If so, you need to know that.