Reply To: Move across country with boyfriend and I on rocky foundation?

Nah, move on. You can’t trust him, and nothing else matters if you can’t trust a person. It also sounds like he might be gaslighting you if he’s telling you that your reaction to his lies is part of the problem. At any rate, this isn’t someone you should do business with OR be in a relationship with. If you aren’t ready to end the relationship, that’s one thing; but don’t go into business with him. That’s a terrible, terrible idea. Can you take the job on your own, without him?