Reply To: Lack of Boundaries Between Boyfriend and His Soon-to-Be Ex

It could develop into a relationship. You are pushing very hard for dating less than two months. Certainly too soon to meet his kids. Not at all clear why you’d expect him to discuss his dating situation with his coworkers. Why would he tell them your name? Also, too soon to tell his wife about you. They aren’t even divorced yet, are co-parenting, and if she goes off when told the news, it can seriously impact the kids. He’s not sure where the relationship with you is going and at less than two months, you shouldn’t be sure either. Most dating relationships end fairly quickly. He has a lot on his plate now. If you’re dating 4x a week, his family almost certainly knows he’s dating.