Reply To: Is it normal for your other half to fancy someone else

I don’t think it suggests they don’t trust him, I think being attracted to others is completely normal human behaviour – but then so is jealousy (within reason) it doesn’t mean that you don’t trust the person you are with. I assume if you felt there was a boundary crossed or another reason for the search that you would speak to your partner about this? My husband gets jealous over my crushes from TV lol doesn’t mean that he doesn’t trust me!
First I wouldn’t assume as above he has searched her because he is attracted to her (even if she is younger and I am assuming attractive and this is why you’ve made the assumption ?)
Secondly, if he is, you trust him fully never to act on anything like this – you have most likely felt an attraction to another person but this is meaningless and your relationship is not