Reply To: Lack of Boundaries Between Boyfriend and His Soon-to-Be Ex

I wouldn’t like dating someone who had this kind of relationship with his ex to the point of doing everything together except sharing a roof. I don’t want to deal with all that. But I wouldn’t ask or expect or want someone who had that kind of relationship with an ex to change it for my benefit. I’d just accept that our lifestyles aren’t a match and I’d move on. This shouldn’t be hard to do after dating for only two months. In that time, maybe you’ve enjoyed his company and you like him a lot but you’ve also learned that you are not a match. He can’t meet your needs.