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We get together after dinner. We take walks, go to bar trivia, or he comes over to my house. If I go over there, he makes sure the coast is clear, then smuggles me into the bedroom when I get there. We’ve gone out to dinner on a few Saturday nights. Yep, that’s exactly how I feel! I’m the side chick. I guess I was just wondering how long I should wait to see if things changed, give him a chance to gradually make a little more room in his life for me if he genuinely wants to move on and start a relationship.