Reply To: Is it normal for your other half to fancy someone else

I can not tell you how many people, usually women, who write in that they looked at their partner’s social media, saw they’ve looked at other women and write in here asking about what it means.

It means you snooped and saw something you didn’t like, (which by the way- is not a great example of how you 100% trust him) but that means nothing, and you likely know it. I bet you look up people. I do. What does it mean when I look up a HS friend but I’m 40? People are naturally curious and we have searchable engines at our fingertips. Is it bothering you because she’s hot and younger?

Ask him about it. Tell him what you did. Just be honest and talk about it if it’s bothering you. It takes some looking to see who he’s looked up. That’s ridiculous to me. To invade your partner’s privacy to the extent you look up what he’s searched for on Instagram and Facebook. You are the one who seems to have the issue, you’re insecure. Handle that first, if you actually do trust your bf. Stop snooping. People deserve privacy.