Reply To: Am I being a spoiled bride?

I mean, I get it that you want to to have the wedding, a big wedding and have it be your day and all…but that is largely a fantasy.

And I know you want what you want but part of this is a little pageantry at this point. For the party that knows you’re married, the expense and stress is hard to swallow maybe, when they know you are married?

Why not just surprise everyone by not doing all that ceremonial traditional stuff and just have a big and fun, less stress and drama, party?