Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

I think it depends on the person – some women might welcome being asked twice to go home together – but on the first date, it’s probably best to err on the side of *not* suggesting that more than once even at the risk of missing an opportunity for sex. More often than not, it’s going to wave a red flag if you’re pushy right off the bat about getting intimate. If this woman last night was on the fence about her feelings for you or was trying to figure it out, your pushiness didn’t tip the balance in your favor, but if she liked everything else about you and the connection she was feeling, being a little pushy may not have been a deal-breaker.