Reply To: Mom is a slob.
“I know the answer is that I need to have an uncomfortable conversation with her and beg her to get help.”
This isn’t necessarily the answer. A lot depends on your relationship, how close you are or want to be with her, and whether she’s a danger to herself or others.
My first suggestion would be to find yourself a good therapist and work through your own issues from growing up like this, have them help you develop strategies for dealing with your mom.
