Reply To: Prolonging the inevitable

Set the boundaries that are right for you – but please know that by setting this boundary, you are potentially setting yourself up for failure. Several years ago they tried to do a study on male adult content users and they couldn’t find a control group (as in – they couldn’t find any men who didn’t consume at least a little bit).

I am not criticizing your choices or your boundaries, you have to do what is best for you; but maybe this is something to discuss with your therapist, because you are potentially setting up conditions that are so “zero tolerance” you will either have to remain alone or your partner has to lie to you.