Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

I don’t think you did anything “wrong” per se – but my two cents is that it could be perceived that you met the initial “no” gracefully with an invite to continue spending time together. However, you continued to drink, probably each drank a little too much, inhibitions are down and so the next ask is potentially perceived as taking advantage of your inebriated states.

You got a sober-ish no followed later by a (likely drunken) yes. In the future, try to get that yes closer to the sober-ish state. And yeah, most women are not taking a one night stand into relationship territory. They don’t expect it and they may not want it.