Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

Please don’t act as if we’re all podunk idiots who don’t understand how women think, dating or relationships work. We’re the age range/slightly older and have lived in urban areas and cities. If you want to hook up, that’s fine, no judgement, BUT you can’t tell me what you’re doing is getting you what you say you want.

Do you understand how many straight men generally try to get some the first date? It’s not showing anything other than that you have warm blood, are horny and are a mammal? Gentlemen with serious intent to date wait a date, at least. I don’t care if you think that makes me sound old or what.

Like you’re the guy in your mid thirties, who should know better- writing in with his post, with this borderline last “first date.” You have to change, my friend. The culture is not to get your date so drunk she is telling you she doesn’t want to see you again the morning after. That’s not mutual chemistry you were feeling.