Reply To: Prolonging the inevitable

What’s the line, though? You police his masturbation? Is he supposed to tell you who he imagined, or is he just not allowed to at all?

I do think therapy might be a good place for this. I don’t really care about porn either way, I’ve never dated a guy obsessed with it or had it affect my life/sex life and just can’t imagine this line, that any pornography viewing ever is verboten.

Do you masturbate?

I don’t understand what the issue is. Naked women are everywhere. Humans are everywhere. People are going to see other naked people and be curious. I guess I just wonder where someone gets such a hatred for a thing. I went to art school and did live nude model drawing classes and such so I don’t really see the big issue with nudity at all per se. How is looking at a video of someone else having sex, cheating on you?

Just here to play devil’s advocate, I’m sorry if I’ve made you feel upset.