Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

It may be that she feels you wouldn’t respect her boundaries again the future and maybe in the cold light of day feels she was coerced into having sex with you, while drunk. It’s not a nice feeling to wake up and regret what’s happened. It sounds like that’s not what you were intending, but her feelings about this are valid. Getting offended by our responses on here and disregarding people’s experiences on the other side of this is disappointing, and makes me think you don’t actually want to be told why she responded the way she has.