Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

When I say “there it is,” I mean, there’s the real Jeff.

Your original post was written to make you appear polite, thoughtful (all those ellipses), and genuinely seeking advice to improve your dating success and your interactions with women.

But what you really wanted to hear was that it varies by woman so you really did nothing wrong.

What you did not want was for a bunch of women to tell you what you could have done differently or better.

Carry on!