Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

I think the podunk comment was in response to this comment.

“I don’t think hooking up on a first date should be any real indicator of intent… it should be one of interest. But that’s just me and that’s where I come from on this having… grown up in NYC I guess.”

I took it similarly to how Anonymousse did.

Since no one else has brought it up, I’d like to propose another possibility of why things turned for the worse on this date: Maybe your date was not feeling the sexual connection with you and it changed her perspective on how the date went.