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Jeff
May 10, 2023 at 11:03 am #1120137

Kate what’s odd is that I did communicate, at least I thought. I did 3 things on our date:
1. I asked what’s a fun speed of dating at the bar and she responded “I think things move fast if I’m into the person”
2. I asked, twice (I know, I know), if she wanted to home. Tbh, the second time was after we were making out at the second bar and holding hands
3. I asked in bed what she liked and didn’t like.

bloodymediocrity’s point actually kind of makes sense. Even though she enjoyed me going down on her, I couldn’t get it up (I probably had a beer too many). and I think that’s a possibility. It was late, I had 5 drinks, and was a bit nervous and hadn’t used a condom in a while… since this isn’t really a frequent thing I do.

While thinking about it slightly… this sort of makes sense a bit.