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Jeff
May 10, 2023 at 11:15 am #1120142

Well, educate me. What goes through a woman’s mind when a guy can’t get it up the first time.

Tbh, I’m okay with it. It doesn’t happen to me often and honestly if someone rejects me because of that… I’m okay with it. None of my exes and I had that issue and it really only happens on a first date… I get a bit nervous sometimes and it… rarely happens… so I feel the negative judgement is inaccurate.

But… what goes through a person’s mind when that happens. I think I handled it fine… I basically said that I was a bit too tipsy to have sex but happy to just cuddle and touch her and go down on her. She seemed to enjoy it and I remember us hugging at the end and her showing appreciation. It seemed actually… okay. She left at like 5 after we napped for a while.