Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

Anonymousse: Hey look I know you hate me to my core… but uh this is kind of why I brought up the difference in how we see hookups. All of my relationships have started with a first-date hook up, and yes with drinks. It sounds like you think that’s bad. I disagree is all. That’s literally all. My relationships ended for different reasons… nobody was like “hey this is ending because we hooked up on our first date”. I think… first-date hookups are completely fine, even with drinks, obviously with consent…. and it doesn’t sound like you do.

You are attacking me and it is odd to me how many people are just allowing it here.