Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

To me, based only on what you’ve shared here (I don’t know you’re life, only what you’ve written here, so excuse me if I’m wrong but) you seem like a guy in your twenties who never left the bar and drinking culture behind and can’t think of a date other than that. I’m surprised you’re 36. Are you dating women our age?

A first date should be really quick- one drink, chitchat, sense charisma and go. If it goes well, you make another date. You don’t ask them what sexual positions they like. That’s not expressing personal interest in another human.