Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

Kate: “No, you’re not getting it. Look, I’m not going to tell you how to have good sex, but that’s not it.”

Eh, but maybe not? It seems like past sexual partners were okay with me. Again, I’ve had relationships that were successful. It doesn’t seem bad to be overly communicative in bed. I think asking someone what they like and don’t like in bed (while naked and in bed), is just fine frankly and it’s odd people don’t think that? Maybe I’m missing something…. but I don’t think this is the point of the post.