Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

Yeah, as I’ve been saying from pages ago- and others have- take it slower. Don’t try to take her home on the first date, it’s insulting at worst and can be weird and coercive and gives the impression you only want sex. That’s what I wrote pages ago and you told me I didn’t understand dating and hookup culture, and that you’ve grown up in NYC…so I responded that I’m not a podunk idiot, we’re all educated, modern women.