Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

I said whiskey dick. But yeah that’s not really compatible with 5 beers over 9 hours so maybe just nerves. That’s my point though, if you have trouble performing with a new partner, then why be so quick to want to have sex on the first date? If you hook up on the 2nd or 3rd date (I tend to wait til the 6th but that’s me), then you know the woman likes you enough to want to explore possibilities with you. You’ve built up some chemistry. So, 1) you might be a little more comfortable, and 2) she’s less likely to just be like oh fuck this. You can get a little more physical each time over the course of a few dates, build up to it.