Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

So I don’t believe your entire friend group has somehow been immune to the terrible behavior of men, but even if that were true, do you not pay attention to what’s going on in the world around you? There have been entire movements like #MeToo dedicated to calling out the inappropriate behavior of men. It seems impossible that you’d not even be “aware.”

Also, your first post was not like that. Like I said, you buried the lede. And then told us that’s not how things work in NYC when the consensus was that most women would find your behavior pushy.

Literally nobody has said it’s wrong to go home with your dates on the first date.

Somehow, despite being born and raised in NYC, your world and breadth of experience seem very, very small to me.