Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

You don’t understand or consider the power dynamics of women and men and first dates and inviting women back to your house and the risk that is to a woman. That means you don’t fundamentally respect women if you haven’t ever considered that risk. You didn’t even acknowledge it until a man, bloodymediocrity, brought it up. I really have a hard time believing a modern, metropolitan man can be so blind.

I’m 39 and have lived in VT, Boston, Portland, Seattle, Salt Lake and Park City, UT, Boulder, CO, Seattle again, and now I’m right outside of Philly. Is that too podunk to have an opinion?

I had kids in my middle school class sexually assaulted. You know no one? How lucky for you. You’ve never read a newspaper and seen sexual assault? Donald trump was just indicted for rape. I mean, it’s everywhere but not anything for you to worry about. It must be awesome to be a man.

That’s why I LOL’d men, YOU being so sensitive and offended at my replies to your post. You’re upset about this but women literally consider if they’ll be strangled as they get ready and text their best friend your name and a screenshot of your tinder profile. That’s why LOL men are so sensitive.