Reply To: Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.

On a more positive note… thank for the extremely heated discussion. I am thinking about what you said… and I’ll keep it mind. Maybe over time, I’ll see it more on your (the 3 of you) sides (that first date hookups and relationships are at odds, and that I’m a predator who values women only for sex and that my dating life has been unsuccessful because I try to have sex with women on first dates) and maybe you’ll see it on mine (there’s literally nothing wrong with having sex on a first date and it doesn’t preclude a relationship and that consent is indeed tricky). Later